Tips on dating a rich girl
In their view, these girls are good at two things: spending money during the relationship, and emptying the guy's pockets at the relationship's demise.
Women rarely think about this from the man's perspective, especially if the man was the one who "ruined things." Full disclosure -- I had a privileged upbringing, which technically makes me a "rich girl." But I did not grow up and expect that lifestyle without my own paycheck. In my experience, there are two types of "rich girls": ones who become gold diggers and don't have jobs, real friends, or passions, and ones whose privileged upbringings were contingent upon performance (school, work) and respect for the people providing that lifestyle.
I’m looking to get married to a guy who makes at least half a million a year. I know a woman in my yoga class who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and she’s not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. Give me specifics — bars, restaurants, gyms – What are you looking for in a mate? Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I’m being up front about it.
I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don’t think I’m overreaching at all. I dated a business man who makes average around 200 – 250. Be honest guys, you won’t hurt my feelings – Is there an age range I should be targeting (I’m 25)? I wouldn’t be searching for these kind of guys if I wasn’t able to match them — in looks, culture, sophistication, and keeping a nice home and hearth.
Overall, the conversation forced me to understand why these men are at best wary of women, and at worst harbor resentment against them.
Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? – Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper east side so plain? it’s NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial interests Posting ID: 432279810 THE ANSWER Dear Pers-431649184: I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully about your dilemma.
Here are my questions specifically: – Where do you single rich men hang out? I am looking for MARRIAGE ONLY Please hold your insults — I’m putting myself out there in an honest way.
Let me explain, you’re 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next but less so each year. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your beauty fades I need an out. So a deal that makes sense is dating, not marriage.
Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets.